How-to
How to Do Kegel Exercises Correctly for Women
Technique, safety notes, and common mistakes for women learning pelvic floor muscle exercises.

For women, Kegel exercises train the pelvic floor muscles that support the bladder, uterus, and bowel. They may help some people with stress urinary leakage, but technique matters.
Step 1: Identify the pelvic floor
Imagine stopping gas or stopping urine flow briefly. Do not make stopping urine a regular exercise habit.
Step 2: Contract without bracing
Squeeze and lift the pelvic floor while keeping the abdomen, thighs, and buttocks relaxed.
Step 3: Relax between repetitions
Release fully. If relaxing is difficult or painful, ask a healthcare provider before continuing.
Common mistakes
- Holding your breath.
- Squeezing the buttocks or thighs.
- Bearing down instead of lifting.
- Practicing while urinating.
- Skipping relaxation between repetitions.
- Progressing even when symptoms worsen.
Pregnancy and postpartum note
Pregnancy and childbirth can affect the pelvic floor. If you are pregnant, recently gave birth, had tearing, surgery, pelvic pain, or symptoms that worry you, ask a clinician before using a generic plan.
If relaxation is difficult
If you can contract but cannot relax fully, Kegels may not be the right first step. Some people need relaxation-focused pelvic floor care instead of strengthening.
Start with the Beginner program only if the movement feels comfortable, and read the safety guide before increasing volume.
Try a gentle routine
If this feels appropriate for you, start with the Beginner preset in the Kegel.Today timer.
Sources
- Mayo Clinic: Kegel exercises for women
- Cochrane Review: Pelvic floor muscle training for urinary incontinence in women
Last updated: June 30, 2026